I LIKE A LOT!!!!!!

She will chase you around for a while;

but theres going to be a day when she’s gonna stop running in circles around you.

She’s gonna get over you & at that very moment

you’re going to wish

you had let her catch

you. ♥

True Story!

AS UNIQUE AS……

Ever wonder why there isn’t in existence a simile for uniqueness

that doesn’t sound made up?

well,I do all the time 🙂

This is a normal scenario we come across every other day

other than those who are allergic or

are like me and can’t stand them

or those who prefer man’s so called best friend

why would your best friend scare the daylights out of you

out of sheer excitement?!

or those who prefer the other kind of pets

that don’t eat so much and consume less living space

I like to think the birds are just pretending to be nice

or breathing some different kind of air..

because the birds i’ve been coming across

make me want to scream…..

and run for cover.

I wouldn’t call myself an animal hater

I just think people and animals don’t necessarily have to mix…

IF ONLY

IF ONLY

I could remember with such determination

the course content or material required

to excel in exams or assignments

as I do the

numerous episodes of a  myriad

of series that I currently keep abreast with…

IF ONLY

I could muster up the energy and excitement

on a sunday morning to go to church,

after a busy saturday afternoon

and night of festivities

that I had As I got all dressed up

rearing to go and paint the town yellow…

IF ONLY

I could forgive others as quickly

as I let things slide

time and again when u let me down

after saying you wouldn’t.

IF ONLY

I didn’t care what people thought of me

as much as I would encourage any of my loved ones to

‘DO YOU’

deuces

THANKYOU

For acting the way you did

and making me cry

With every tear , a lesson was learnt

For showing me the

kindness of a stranger

my faith in the essence of humanity was restored.

For saying NO when you did,

i didn’t think much of it then

but I have come to appreciate it Today.

For not accepting me as I am,

and trying to change me into

what you thought I ought to be,

I now know that I am fine with who I am

and don’t need anyone’s approval but God’s.

For playing those songs on the radio

they put into words what i was not able to

admit to myself.

For not treating me as I deserved

You won’t fool me again,

I know that I am worth all that and more..

For standing by me,

Even when I was not the easiest person

to be around and believing in me

when others did not.

Even though we don’t always see eye to eye.

For making my life so much sweeter,

having my back

and not calling me stupid

even when I knew I had said/done some stupid stuff.

Knowing when to and when not to call me out 🙂

For Loving me unconditionally,

forgiving me and always reminding me of

how blessed I am,I am forever grateful.

GAME OR IS IT?

been thinking lately about whether in certain situations

we tend to read the writing on the wall

when there actually isn’t anything written on the wall.

SCENE A.

Face lights up as boy meets girl through a common friend.

Boy gives that “I’m Interested” look

The three (or more) have a conversation and everything seems to have gone well.

A few meetings later

After probably 2 or more “bump-into-each-other’s”

at a common joint,

Totally ignoring….

boy pretends not to remember meeting girl…

when “forced” to say hello due to a common friend

Now is this just ‘game’ or is it really possible for someone

not to remember meeting you after more than 2 interactions?

SCENE 2.

Boy and girl have a connection.

More often than not if simply friends,

Short message service responses are almost immediate

if not for a valid reason likely to be explained..

When there could be something else there…

Boy takes his sweet time responding

regardless of the content of the text

Girl feels guilty complaining

for fear of coming off as needy.

Girl is pissed off.

Girl moves on or rather appears to.

Boy responds with lame excuse if any

and continues conversation like all is gravy..

is it possible to be that clueless really?

SCENE 3.

Boy :hey, we should go for a  (insert movie/lunch/concert/bash/some sort of gathering)

next week

Girl: sounds cool (*hiding excitement*)

Girl:which would be better evening/weekend?

Boy: You decide

Girl: cool,weekend it is…

Week comes,

girl wonders whether the plan is still in order but doesnt want to be the one to ask.

Weekend comes,

girl gets dressed up just in case but boy does not contact her..

Over the weekend boy and girl happen to meet while out with friends

either

boy: You look nice,what’s the occasion

OR

boy:What happened? we were meant to meet up

After several attempts at hinting have failed miserably

girl:Oh yah…(not amused and pretending not to remember..)

Really???

What the *@!”$^ (beans) man??????!

if this is a Game

or Game as it is called,

I don’t want to play no more!

DEUCES

10 NOT SO ODD THINGS I’VE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO…..

1.FAINT

I know most of the times this would not necessarily be a good thing,

because its likely due to a health issue,

but I just wonder what it would feel like to faint maybe,

due to shock at meeting one of my celebrity knight’s in shining armour e.g

2.LOSE MY VOICE

You know how sometimes someone gets a cold/flu

…or sings so much that the vocal

cords are strained…

I want me none of that

but I think the husky voice that results is sooo cool!!!

3.KEG STAND

heeeey nobody wants to voluntarily pass out…

in a drunken stupor,

or rather i’d like to think so..

but I suspect my tolerance would be not so much…

4.DINE AND DASH

too bad my conscience wouldn’t allow me…

my mum always told me such,and the equivalents such as driving off at a gas

station without paying result in someone else paying for it,

probably the attendant/waiter/waitress in question…

wouldn’t want that on my hands…

5.MISTLETOE EFFECT

hopefully this would be with a significant other

and not a random bloke (yeah who knew that’s how its spelt)

ok maybe you did 🙂

6.DRAG RACE

I know,I know

Its dangerous and a better-not-go-there…nini thing

probably too many movies,

but why lie it sort of,kinda looks like it would kick a good one!

7.RIDE A HARLEY DAVIDSON

bicycles are as far as it goes for me…

speed is limited to ‘safe’

although i do wonder sometimes….

anyhoo  last i checked these babies were the baddest,

note: Last was quite a while back…

probably in the days of  Kwai Chang Caine KungFU

8.GET ONE OF THESE

ok maybe not that extreme,

a little subtler would do..

Truth is last time i had a piercing I was 6,

so I cant really remember if it hurt too much,

but I imagine this would..

that coupled with the fact that the wound leaves one prone to

an increased risk of infection and the wound could close up in

a couple of hours/days should

one take the ring off…

makes me doubtful that I will get one ever…

But hey,if you have one,Go You!!!

9.READ THE BIBLE FROM COVER TO COVER

All the answers to life’s questions should be in there..

if we look hard enough..

There were/are? parts of the world where this is forbidden/illegal

10. BREAK A GUINESS WORLD RECORD

Easier said than done folks!

chronicles of *confusia*

So in my cyberwalking,

I came across this quote on twitter

and it got me thinking

about how often a girl out there has asked

herself  ‘what exactly does this particular guy find lacking in me?’

Everything started off well,

there seemed to be a connection,

all of a sudden, a guy goes cold turkey..

or finds another interest as fast as you can say

which brings me to the conclusion

that guys and girls actually do have particularly different ways of looking

at things.

More Often than not a girl often will either look for

looks,personality,security,Faith all together or separately ,depending;

every person is unique and thus different qualities,virtues,

or possessions appeal accordingly.

Time and again,

you may find  girl A picked

over  girl B who seemingly has all the qualities and more

that the guy in question is seeking.

But then again I read somewhere that guys always know

what they want as the outcome when they single out a girl and show interest..

either a fling,some thing long-term or just want to see how things will end up.

How true that is, is for you to decide..

I am not a guy and thus shall not generalize..

All in All,

changing oneself to suit another rarely does any good.

Only Solution I have come across that seems

to hit the spot is

Try to be the kind of person you would like to be with…

Practice what you preach,

if you want to meet someone who is

a looker,smart,responsible,caring,charming,hardworking,

wealthy,fun,energetic,considerate

try to be that kind of a person because maybe that is what the

person in question is also looking for.

Just my two cents…